My boyfriend asked me to come to his consultation which I'm happy to do. I want to be genuinely helpful and engaged, not just sit there. What questions should I be asking from a partner's perspective?

I want to ask something a little sensitive. After your partner had the procedure did you feel any differently about him — positively or negatively? I'm trying to understand all the emotional dimensions of this before we commit to the decision.

He finally told me what he did and honestly I am really happy about it.

I'll be honest — I was not enthusiastic when my husband first brought this up. I didn't understand why he needed it and I worried about safety and what it meant about how he saw our relationship. For women who started skeptical — what shifted for you?

I never expected how different he feels now. He's so much more confident and willing to be himself. So glad he did it. Matches my Boobs now, LOL

My partner is considering adding glans enhancement alongside his girth procedure. Has anyone noticed a difference from the partner side? Is it significant or more of a subtle aesthetic thing?

My partner is planning to have this done and we're both wondering about the timeline for resuming intimacy. How long did you ladies have to wait and was the waiting period difficult? Any practical advice for making that stretch easier on both of you?

I'll just ask the question most women are thinking. Does girth actually make a meaningful physical difference for a woman? I want to give my partner honest feedback before he spends the money and goes through the procedure. What have women actually experienced?

Hi ladies. My husband has been researching girth enhancement for a few months and I've been supportive but honestly I have my own questions. Is there anything we as partners should know going in? Did it change things between you and your partner — in the bedroom and just in general? Would love to hear from women who've been through this with their husbands or boyfriends.

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